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Wow sorry... :-(
I don't know you, but I feel very very sorry about what happened. :(
This may be asking a lot but it is wise to calm down and collect yourself so that you can't do any harm to yourself or others.
Hope you get your situation sorted out. Good luck!
I'm sorry to hear this ma'am.
Pm me and I'll help you through it.
Alright someone boutta die, Woundy you grab the trash bags I got the shovel. JK
Don't waste your tears over him Lyric, if this guy was stupid enough to cheat on you then he obviously didn't know what he had. You are a very nice, funny, smart, and gorgeous individual and don't let an idiot like that make you think otherwise. Like the saying goes they are plenty of fish in the sea.
PM me if u need someone to vent to.
I know it's a very sensitive time, and that you may not see it yet now, but this may have been a blessing in disguise. Imagine if you didn't find out now, but rather after your wedding and when it was too late to backout.
It's far fetched, but there's always a silver lining :) the community will always be here for you.
Awww...
Lyric- im really sorry bu i guess he wasnt the one. If theres anything you need just pm me, k. On the bright side you can buy plat now?
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Originally Posted by Lowlyspy:510058
Grabs shot gun* Oh wait you where kidding.
*Holds shot gun*
This is so sad...i actually thought you were gonna live with him.You knocked her out?if i were a girl i would've done the same,but be careful when you do that.(it could go to court)WTF is wrong with your ex-boyfriend? he gave it all up for an ugly girl?your pretty,right?so he should've chose you.
feeling your pain,onaraasider
Oh my, I'm so sorry to hear that, on the brighter note, at least you discovered it before your married him, it could have been a lot more painful emotionally and financially. I'm sure in time you'll recover from this, there are always good things out of tragic events, take this time to go back to the people who really cares for you and spend quality time with them this holiday season XD
Lyric this guy must be stupid to cheat on someone as beautiful as you. Im very sorry that your sad , but you'll find someone else who will treat you right and give you the respect you deserve.
Someone in guild can't buy plat now because he's engaged. :O
Well anyway. People like these, just leave them alone. You don't have to physically destroy them. That hurts your emotions and theirs too. You won't be as sad if you just try to forget it and don't bring it up with rage. Calm down, leave him alone, and maybe you will forget about it... Just advice.
This is really sad. You must feel so annoyed right now. Please private message me about it if you want to.
The ONLY thing i think i shouldnt have done, Throw a chair at him. I felt like the freakin hulk.
we've all seen your pic on the people behind the characters. I'm 13 and i can see that you probably have boys trailing you and asking you out.Why would he waste his future?
BTW,sorry if i asked,but if he decided to apologize and try and get back with you,would you say yes?
Not good :'(
He's a jerk, he had no right to do that! You are clearly better off without him. And as Elly said you may be lucky that this happened sooner rather than later. Just gone through a split after 5 year relationship, nothing to that extent though if you want to talk your more than welcome.
Stay safe.
Oh, that sounds like me only I'm not getting married but it's about my family and how they treat me which makes me SUPER sad like I want to run away.. ;( I'm crying too.. D;
Sigh... A sad thing to happen, he sounds like a super lousy guy~
Don't worry, it'll be a fist that's thrown at him next time.Quote:
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Man I'm sorry to hear that. You hardly know me but Ive been here since day one of PL and I mostly stalk the forums rather then post or play it(starting to get back into playing it). Anyways from what I've read about posts about you or posts that you've posted is that your a really nice sweet woman. I'm not the expert on love, but I can't imagine ever cheating on my girlfriend. Especially if one day we become engaged. The guy was a low life scum bag and doesn't deserve you. Even people who have never experienced love of any sort know to be faithful. Like others have said your better off without him. Hope you feel better.
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Lol thanks for what? A laugh? Lol
I'm dead serious its on :mad:
i shouldn't say this but don't you wanna change your...
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Sorry for your troubles :( Enjoy the rest of the holidays as much as possible! A loyal companion will be sure to come your way. Best wishes.
Gee Im sorry it had to end like that. Honestly. Better to have found out now than after marriage right? Anyways, guys like that are often the ones who weren't taught better in manners and are one of the most shallow types of people out there. Keep your chin up and give it some time before looking for a new "bf". Im obviously not in your shoes but I think I would lose most of my trust for anyone and it would be traumatizing. Besides, remember this, fate is on it's way. It may seem like it got in a bit of "traffic" but the end result will be much better than whats going on now. In other words, It may seem like you can't find the right guy but he was only strike one. You still have the whole game left. Good luck! =)
Not a whole lot to say, since it's one of those instances where words aren't the cure, but rather time. Some guys can be total idiots, and miss what's in front of them. You clearly deserve someone better, and I totally agree with Elly. Blessings can be masked by what seems to be a curse. Most things to say would come off as cliche, and overused, but they are true. Now's the time to be as optimistic and strong as you can to get through it (which I know you can do). Any guy would be very fortunate to have you, those who don't appreciate what they have usually end up empty handed.
Don't worry 'bout him. If he cheated on you, it just shows he isn't gonna be a good person to marry.
it takes time. i'm a divorcee, so I know the world of hurt, loss and confusion you are in now.
no one wants to know the truth, especially if it is an ugly one, but better now than when you are married with kids. it makes the situation a whole lot more complicated.
i'm a guy but sorry to tell you that I feel many guys do not understand the meaning of cherishing what they have. the minute you have given your heart and soul to him, he starts to look at other girls.
you will go through stages. hurt, then rage, then numbness, then gradual acceptance and moving on with your life. you can't rush it. just a word of advice from one who has been equally hurt before. your life doesn't revolve around him. you have been on your two own feet before you met him and you will be able to stand up again for yourself in time. take time off from your job if it helps to give you some time to sort it out mentally and emotionally. surround yourself with family and close friends. you will be alright again in time, hugs.
Sorry to hear this has happened to you i cant offer you much just try to keep your head up and see a small positive u didnt have to find this out after u guys got married wich woulda been as bad so please be strong as you can see many people would like to offer some words of comfort and pm's of happiness with that said enjoy your life dont let it end with a jerk.
Night night
You are better than him. Don't worry, they're is someone out there that will bing you peace...
Man, you can tell Troy that the "bromance" is off.
Lyric, I haven't dealt with anything nearly as traumatizing as your situation when it comes to relationships, but I have been cheated on.
Something I learned from it all? I know it's hard, but getting over it is the first part. You shouldn't let someone who treated you like dirt have an even greater negative impact on your life. My solution to this? Don't just jump into another relationship straight away. Hang out with friends more; they take the pain away. Sometimes, even if I have crap friends, I hang out with them anyway, because the best way to get over grief is by socializing. Also, if you're going to try my method, one thing I suggest is for you not to hang out with friends that are going to give you the pity attention. Why? It's just going to make it harder for you to get over him. He was the jerk and made the mistake, not you. Don't dwell on it (Yes, I realize it's easier said than done, but socializing makes it A LOT easier).
Also, remember, if I know you, he probably won't be dating any girls for a while. ;)
Cheer up and don't let him get you down. :)
Cheers,
~Parth
EDIT: @person that got the thread moved: Thank you for doing it the sincere way, instead of forum policing it. :)