Lol your post makes my on my mood again, i remember when my friend said"have a heart ".
I have helped many people level in crush the keeper, fathom crypts and expedition, but imo victory lap just isnt the place to level(20-40 xp per run?). When i do victory lap i want a group of solid and experienced player, not some level 47 bird with a random green coat and a small black crossbow.
I also accept my boots like a man. Maybe the hoster had a friend trying to join or maybe i am just not good enough for the hosters game.
By the way by putting caps on "you" i was trying to emphasize the fact that it is not othets, but YOU that is causing the misery.