Rejection sucks. When I read your post it made me feel like Two things are going on: 1) you miss the vibe your old guild had and 2) you are smarting from being rejected.
Regarding number one, it's hard to recreate the vibe of your favorite guild if it crumbles or merges. If you really want to try to find a guild with the vibe of your original guild you'll either have to make your own and create your own criteria or you'll have to try a couple of the smaller guilds. The majority of the elite/lb guilds will have criteria based on maintaining their rank. There are plenty of smaller guilds with a good vibe. Most of these guilds have rules such as: no spamming chat, no begging, no scamming but won't get pissed if you don't grind or farm countless hours.
Regarding number two, you just need to shrug it off and realize that lb guilds need to have a set of rules or they would have a hard time reaching and maintaining the top spots. Instead of getting your feelings hurt, just remind yourself that it's not about you--it's about ranking. In other words, don't take it personally.
Best of luck finding (or making) a guild that works for you!
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