Thanks everyone who helps here or offered help items gold in game or pm I'm very grateful but I want to this by my own farming my own gear and so on. The only gift I accepted was a gemstone vanity from an old friend I think it doesn't improve starts and I will never sell it so it's OK to wear it.

I'm level 21 now leveling the old fashioned way not buying elixirs but doing quests slow but steady. It's really fun it makes me remember why grew to like this game so much in the first place and I gotta say the most other noobs are really nice only lots of "pro" merchs and account sellers are really obnoxious.

Gotta get rid of lots of lev 5 recipes though as I farmed way more than I'll ever craft as stupid gems won't drop for me.