So i'm still not sure,
does it matter if i put the gem in my lvl 5 weapon or in my lvl 5 armor/helm (whatever)
Does it also work on items that, lets say, already have a 3.0 damage boost (my amulet for example has it).
So would it make sense to upgrade my amulet?

Can anyone pls give me advice i dont want to waste my only two para gems.
Thanks