Okay guys here's my story

I have a level 12 twink warrior for PvP (obviously). Like everyone else, I started out as a noob farming hard to get better gear. My first good set was the hellish set which I really liked, but my problem was that it gave little mana. I asked around and discovered that Ancient set is the best armor for my level. After grinding for sometime, I was able to afford the helm and armor. To cut the long story short, over a 4 month span, I was able to turn my twink into a serious boss! My last purchase was Storm Sword of Pot which is the best weapon IMO. My total damage was 101.2 with nightshade pet. At this stage when I played against other warriors with identical gear, we would come very close in HP. That's when I decided to take a big leap and gemmed my sword with my para. I was soo supped! My DMG was a remarkable 118.7!! I couldn't wait to go to PvP and demolish other warriors is 1vs1. So I get into PvP and challenge my friend that had an identical gear except para. His DMG was close to what mine used to be (100.8) so we start and this guy is toe to toe with me same HP level and everything. I asked him what his build was and he told me (full venge/ CS/ Sky smash.. stun upgrade/ Horn.. Protective shield) Which was exactly the same build as me. So we vs 15 more times with almost identical results. I grew frustrated because stats wise, my DMG should be eating up his HP... We had the same pets (Nightshade) and I had slightly more armor (not saying how much) I then left lobby and ran around PvP looking for wars to vs. I found about 8 more that I versused all with SS no para and 3 of them were able to beat me. So can anyone tell me what the hell is going on? Is the para just their to make my stats look pretty or does it actually take effect? 100.8 vs 118.7.... I should be zapping this dudes HP man! Please someone, anyone, make sense of this to me? This has to be a bug, and it needs to get squashed ASAP!!!! Feel free to leave your thoughts on this, thank you.