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    People don't all use friends to "make friends."
    I'm assuming people use them to find games to join with people who are higher lvled, aka friending all the 30s you see so when you join a game, you know there's atleast 1 30 in it.
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    I got a freind request spam today too

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    I never accept spam friend requests either. I don't think this is antisocial. Would you come up to a total stranger IRL, hug them, and ask them for their adress/phone? No, you wouldn't, and this is like doing the same thing. I prefer to run with them once, or have a conversation to get to know the person.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bronislav84 View Post
    I never accept spam friend requests either. I don't think this is antisocial. Would you come up to a total stranger IRL, hug them, and ask them for their adress/phone? No, you wouldn't, and this is like doing the same thing. I prefer to run with them once, or have a conversation to get to know the person.
    I'd say it's more along the lines of asking for their phone number lol
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    Quote Originally Posted by BodMaster View Post
    Inform us of how that goes for you
    Mixed results so far...

    I was placed in a game with a REF, and it went okay. I made sure I said "Hi" to him. (We can't go ostracizing ourselves from REFs, or that would invalidate the study!)

    On the other hand...

    I had one REF invite me to Honeycomb Hideout to hack a terminal. He then asked me the obligatory SG question, and I gave him my obligatory SG answer. Finally, he tried to beg 2k off me. I found that humorous because he was a lv30 in Atomite, and I was a lv 25 in lv15 platinum character gear.

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    i accept most requests,but deny the ones that ask me for money first. Like the following pm is the one u get the most "You look awesome! can i have 10k so i can make a guild?", my reply is "ty^_^ and no just join one of the big guilds buddy" then most tell me off. lol but hey what can you do they're low lvls(most likely first char otherwise they wouldn't beg for crd) they don't know not to cuss out pple in game. i just say watch ur language cya!^_^ and leave lol
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    There will soon (ahem) be an option to reject incoming friend requests.

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    Quote Originally Posted by asommers View Post
    There will soon (ahem) be an option to reject incoming friend requests.

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    awesome!!!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by asommers View Post
    There will soon (ahem) be an option to reject incoming friend requests.
    Hurray!

    My farmer characters have empty friend lists because I don't know a nice way to answer the question "What's the password?"

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    Quote Originally Posted by asommers View Post
    There will soon (ahem) be an option to reject incoming friend requests.

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    Quote Originally Posted by asommers View Post
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    Quote Originally Posted by asommers View Post
    There will soon (ahem) be an option to reject incoming friend requests.

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    yessssss!!! what about a reject option for guild invite spams? lol..

    hurm but, i dont want to "ignore" all friend requests...
    i just wish there was a reject ALL button, like the accept ALL button.. that'd be nice xP


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    oh, and no.. that's not being antisocial.. i consider myself pretty social.. but my friends list is very, very small..
    my pet peeve is random requests. if you've at least spoken to me and i can remember your ign or we had a few good laughs or runs together, i usually will add you. but if u've never even bothered to say "hello" or i've never even seen how u play (like when i join a random game) and i instantly get spammed with friend requests.. i will usually be quick to reject all and leave game. i have had a few repeat request spammers. yet, still no "hello" from them. smh.

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    Quote Originally Posted by IBNobody View Post
    Mixed results so far...

    I was placed in a game with a REF, and it went okay. I made sure I said "Hi" to him. (We can't go ostracizing ourselves from REFs, or that would invalidate the study!)

    On the other hand...

    I had one REF invite me to Honeycomb Hideout to hack a terminal. He then asked me the obligatory SG question, and I gave him my obligatory SG answer. Finally, he tried to beg 2k off me. I found that humorous because he was a lv30 in Atomite, and I was a lv 25 in lv15 platinum character gear.
    ROFL!! You made my day with this post!! Haha some people do make you laugh.. the first part went okay.. then second not so much.. and the level 30 asking you for cred is hilarious!

    Quote Originally Posted by asommers View Post
    There will soon (ahem) be an option to reject incoming friend requests.

    -ALS
    Woooop! You rock Asommers! Thanks for the heads up

    Still trying to comprehend how 2k+ can die from Barrels O.o

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