Friends in "Limbo"

[TANKKAAR]

This issue of "Jumping list" has been around forever and I totally agree that it can get uber annoying a few things you can do till they fix this (if they can?) Is:
-when joining games over and over use the world map and type the players name who is hosting into "game name" section
-for joining or messaging try using guild list (if they are in same guild) I've noticed that jumps a lot less
-when sending messages use the /tell or /r if replying

Hope that helps