I need some advice and some answers please :)

[Nohealth]

Hey guys I think we got a lot of good feedback out there, I think we shouldn't open up debate out here as it will just turn into another drama

[Drone]

This isn’t the case, did you even read the original post?

Usually when something like this happens people would cheer them up some how or feel sorry for them but not in the case of scammed people

[Vurtes]

You did absolutely nothing wrong, you are innocent.

It sounds like he’s trying to make you feel guilty so you will do what he wants. Don’t give in, you didn’t do anything wrong. It sounds like your “friend” is just selfish.


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[PsychoNuke]

I have seen friends in real life (who knew each other for long time) scam and betray. And here you are wasting your time on a guy on internet. Move on and be batman

[Majin]

So I had this ex-friend of mine and here is the reason why I am no longer friends with him/her


1. asked to borrow my medusa set for a trust test - I said no
2. ask to be guild master of my guild - I said no (he was already officer)

I told this friend of mine that "I dont trust anyone and that its not his fault and is because I have seen to many scams within Arcane Legends my entire career of playing"
He says he did all of these things so that he could prove his loyalty to me.

Now this person gets his friends to try and tell me I am a bad person and that I dont understand how my ex-friend's life really is.
He also tells me that I dont know how to run guilds, since i wouldnt make him guild master and says that I need to learn to trust more.
And this ex friend has since left my guild.

Did i do anything wrong? Should I be more trustworthy? Any advice how to deal with my ex-friend and his friends from their consistently endless pms to me?

In my opinion, you can still have a friendship without having any of this trust test bs.
Trust tests shouldn't be a thing.

3words:
Ignore immature whining..

[DalleManden]

Trust tests are wack anyway, I don't get why anyone would do them. The dude was 100% trying to scam you, if he wasn't, why would he pull the victim card and make you feel like a bad person? (He clearly tried to push you to the edge so you would give the stuff to him) Just put him on the ignore list, and remove those people from your life

[Xxkayakxx]

Even if your friend was really willing to give you back everything and show you he’s trustworthy, and got hurt by your behavior, taking it personally, you did good. That would be only the starting, leading to many people asking for the same and to get scammed in the process.
In my past I gave away millions to help people and I got it back I think 10% of the time. Not that all people are bad, but sadly you can’t trust anyone as there is no “justice” in game (as in real life).
Believe me, I’m trustful! I can show you that giving you back your medusa set anytime! XD (just kidding!!!!! Ok devs???? I’m KIDDING!!!! Don’t wanna to get banned again from forum for my sense of humor XD)

[Gouiwaa9000]

In almost 6 years of playing i only trusted 3 players with my items , and non of them asked me to "prove my loyalty" . If they were the ones to break the friendship after the incident , this is really shady . Goes to show that they didn't value it . Someone you can trust with something you value would not just leave and spam you after you refuse to give them one of the rarest items in game for no reason -_-

If you ask me , you just saved yourself a medusa set + your guild . You can tell if you can trust a person by situations like these ^^ a real friend would understand why you dont want to risk such an expensive item and forget about it . I dont think they would even ask for a "trust test" in the first place .

[PatD]

I would have done exactly the same bro! just put those people on ignore list they are toxic

[BRYBE]

Only scammer do trust test

[azeguasa]

You are lucky coz he was officer in your guild he could have done serious damage by kicking other members. Be happy that loser didn't think of that.

You did a good job. You cant trust anyone online.


Lookout for more of these tricksters..

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[Zojack]

Your ex-friends "friends" who are messaging you are the ex-friend. scammer. Trying to scam you.

[Captain critic]

This isn’t the case, did you even read the original post?

Oh my bad i meant usually when something bad happens to a person others cheer em up some how but in this he avoided scam and community gz him, to me the irony is that well what i said in first part here but when scammed, people are criticized

[Fyrce]

Wait, what?

You wanted a bully to like you. The bully told you he will accept you if you live exactly as he wants you to live. And by the way, there are some things of yours that he wants.

You do not step precisely where he wants you to step. He cuts you and gets his posse to emulate in order to stay in his posse, since as long as they are his posse, they get to bask in his shiny bulliness. Now you are wondering whether you should have just been in his posse or is being yourself so much better.

Well, I think you should be yourself and ignore bullies, but in the end, it is up to you