I myself married to Prince, wonderful and extraordinary kind person.
I married this gent out of the blue and id say we built up a decent friendship, its up to YOU if you want to trust the person you’re married to, the “marriage system” has quite frankly nothing to do with that.
All the marriage system does is bind 2 people for the entire community to display.
Wether you want to trust that person or not is totally up to you, not the marriage system.
Ive never seen the marriage system force me to give my spouse any items.

This seems like a very rushed and shortsighted thread to me