just need to check something

[LIGHTNINGLORD67]

1.) Who still thinks I'm a scammer?
Still issues over the banana affair.

2.) Who still thinks I'm a troll on the forums?
You're slowly maturing, keep up the good work.

3.) Who still thinks I'm anything else that's bad?
First impressions stick and take forever and hard work to wash off.

Also...

4.) Who loves hell's kitchen because I LOVE their episodes!
I try not to watch to much television, it rots the mind.

Much love.

The only reason people think I have a "bad" reputation is because they spread rumors to everyone and that I don't know it. It's really getting on my nerves...

[jonboy]

Hey lightning concentrate on the positive, personally I think you have changed alot ( for the better), since your arrival.

[LIGHTNINGLORD67]

Hey lightning concentrate on the positive, personally I think you have changed alot ( for the better), since your arrival.

But I just want to make it clear to everyone that I'm NOT a troll NOR a scammer and that I DIDNT SCAM MRSBANANA!!!!

I never do these things in rl!

EDIt: Your not answering because you don't believe I can make this possible.....sigh.....

[jonboy]

Yes I do believe you can turn it around.
Was have dinner sorry for delay in reply.

As for the alleged scam, I wasn't there and have never had an opinion on it. Search my posts if you want.

Be happy.

[LIGHTNINGLORD67]

Yes I do believe you can turn it around.
Was have dinner sorry for delay in reply.

As for the alleged scam, I wasn't there and have never had an opinion on it. Search my posts if you want.

Be happy.

Oh kk.

/10chars.

[LIGHTNINGLORD67]

Hey lightning concentrate on the positive, personally I think you have changed alot ( for the better), since your arrival.

But since that is coming from one person, it's hard to concentrate on the positive. I need to completely clean the reputation that everyone lied about.

[LIGHTNINGLORD67]

Okay, so no one else thinks I'm a scammer nor a troll?

Come on, just be serious and honest on your opinions. I would truly hate it if you laugh at me because I'm asking this. This thread was made to CLEAN my reputation, not share it.

So just tell me what you guys think; be serious and honest.

if you think what I'm saying is BS, then think of this as a bump .

[BeardedBear]

Asking people why they don't like you isn't any way to help your reputation.

"You gotta pay the troll toll, to get in the boys hole."

[Rarefew]

1.pffh u scamed me so many times
2.ur like a troll from lord of the rings O.o i aint makin u mad ud rip my head off and my happy place too.
3.i think ur a butterfly
4.i loooo-gags- hells kitchen
lol jk lord is kewl :P

Go to yur room

[LIGHTNINGLORD67]

Asking people why they don't like you isn't any way to help your reputation.

"You gotta pay the troll toll, to get in the boys hole."

Eh?

/10chars.

[kavanah]

lightning I really hope it's because of your age that you just don't get it. If I had a bad reputation the very last thing I think I would do is post a thread PROVOKING people to come and blast me more. A thread defending yourself (in a very strange way) is not going to improve your reputation man. Only time, maturity, and acting right will do that.

[LIGHTNINGLORD67]

lightning I really hope it's because of your age that you just don't get it. If I had a bad reputation the very last thing I think I would do is post a thread PROVOKING people to come and blast me more. A thread defending yourself (in a very strange way) is not going to improve your reputation man. Only time, maturity, and acting right will do that.

Yeah its most likely my age....so what should I do then?

[kavanah]

Yeah its most likely my age....so what should I do then?

Well just off the top of my head:

1) Stop being so public about everything. You are over exposing yourself and all of your problems and dragging everyone else in it. Being so public is not a good thing and usually shows immaturity. If you disrespect someone publicly, apologize publicly.

2) Own up to what you've done wrong. A better thread would have been to simply admit what you have not been very good at, apologize to the community, and ask for a fresh start. Then follow up on that fresh start!

3) When it comes to forums, its a rule of thumb to be overly polite to people. Things can easily be miscommunicated over the internet. Be careful how you joke with people, because what may be a joke to you may be offensive to others and taken in the wrong light.

4) Get out of the spotlight for a little bit. Right now you are the hot ticket "forum troll" as many have labeled you. Limit your posts on the forums to maybe once a day or even once a week when you absolutely MUST post.

5) Do extra nice things in game, help people out, and again not in front of everyone. Do the things in the secret that no one else truely knows about, it will come around to benefit you.

6) Don't be a Mr. Know it all, and try to keep out of other people's threads unless you HAVE to post there. In other words, don't come post what I am posting right now because with your current reputation it will backfire on you most likely.

Just some thoughts...

[LIGHTNINGLORD67]

Well just off the top of my head:

1) Stop being so public about everything. You are over exposing yourself and all of your problems and dragging everyone else in it. Being so public is not a good thing and usually shows immaturity. If you disrespect someone publicly, apologize publicly.

2) Own up to what you've done wrong. A better thread would have been to simply admit what you have not been very good at, apologize to the community, and ask for a fresh start. Then follow up on that fresh start!

3) When it comes to forums, its a rule of thumb to be overly polite to people. Things can easily be miscommunicated over the internet. Be careful how you joke with people, because what may be a joke to you may be offensive to others and taken in the wrong light.

4) Get out of the spotlight for a little bit. Right now you are the hot ticket "forum troll" as many have labeled you. Limit your posts on the forums to maybe once a day or even once a week when you absolutely MUST post.

5) Do extra nice things in game, help people out, and again not in front of everyone. Do the things in the secret that no one else truely knows about, it will come around to benefit you.

6) Don't be a Mr. Know it all, and try to keep out of other people's threads unless you HAVE to post there. In other words, don't come post what I am posting right now because with your current reputation it will backfire on you most likely.

Just some thoughts...

ok, but a few comments:

1.) For number two, I would do that and apologize for every "flaming" thing I've posted and finally ask for a fresh start, but I just KNOw that people will still bug me because they accuse me of still scamming barbamitsos. More to the point, they won't forgive me because they believe him and not me.

2.) For number 5, believe it or not, I simply give armor to people who really need it. For example:

therre was a guy wearing a bone tunic when the earliest campaign was swamps. I had some range croc armor and I gave it to him. then after that I said, "enjoy ." It felt good.....

[kavanah]

ok, but a few comments:

1.) For number two, I would do that and apologize for every "flaming" thing I've posted and finally ask for a fresh start, but I just KNOw that people will still bug me because they accuse me of still scamming barbamitsos. More to the point, they won't forgive me because they believe him and not me.

2.) For number 5, believe it or not, I simply give armor to people who really need it. For example:

therre was a guy wearing a bone tunic when the earliest campaign was swamps. I had some range croc armor and I gave it to him. then after that I said, "enjoy ." It felt good.....

Well unfortunately when you lose credit with people it's hard to have them believe you for something, right or wrong.

And cool, keep that up =)

[LIGHTNINGLORD67]

Well unfortunately when you lose credit with people it's hard to have them believe you for something, right or wrong.

And cool, keep that up =)

Well, I might as well give it a try, eh? best of luck to me lol.