I'll leave this here (controversial)

[Spooked]

I am also confused. No one can give a legitimate answer other than my mistake with the 2018 mail.
Just don't understand why people don't get over 1 mistake. Its been 3 years.
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You pay way too much attention to it, when you finally learn to ignore this behaviour and stop complaining about it only then will it stop.
From their perspective youre giving them every reason to continue.
Everytime you address it or play a victim card they are only motivated to keep it up, reacting is only stimulating.
So what they talk behind your back does that make you any less of a person? Ignore it
Same goes for any other form of toxicity aimed towards you.
Someone trashtalks me? Cool, why should i care?