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    So uhh, this here girl is trying to get me to date her. Uhh.. here are some pics:

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    Ill explain:
    So this girl explained to me that her and her online BF had some conflicts. They broke up, and now her and this other guy are "dating". She said she is only 11, I am 15, and she says that she would've asked me out if she was older. And we just 'met'.. Now I am highly against dating online over a game like this, and some of you know that. Bottom line is, online dating should be against the rules!

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    & Online dating is fine.. It can't be a rule. It's pretty normal to do online dating now these days. I know a few people that date on SL and it's totally fine..

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    -_- at least she told you her age. Most aren't even honest enough to do that. haha

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    Ok like eHarmony.com and those other websites are fine. But when you try looking for a bf/gf over a game.. thats different. To me, it seems like its ruining the game..

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    and again, on behalf of the community here on the sts forums, I humbly thank you for bringing out such an important issue out to the general public.
    It was totally fine for you to tell us what that person he/or she whomever it may have been told you in private. If he/or she came on here and saw it, it would be totally cool with the said individual. totally cool. totally.

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    dont think he is 11

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    Quote Originally Posted by Zaltiar View Post
    and again, on behalf of the community here on the sts forums, I humbly thank you for bringing out such an important issue out to the general public.
    It was totally fine for you to tell us what that person he/or she whomever it may have been told you in private. If he/or she came on here and saw it, it would be totally cool with the said individual. totally cool. totally.
    anytime since it was pretty important to me

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    Quote Originally Posted by Slant View Post
    dont think he is 11
    you know that it is a girl.. im not gay

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    Quote Originally Posted by Worship View Post
    anytime since it was pretty important to me
    The bigger issue is just the age, not the whole online dating.

    Quote Originally Posted by Worship View Post
    you know that it is a girl.. im not gay
    Well there's nothing wrong being gay too btw & it's possible he made a typo or read your explanation wrong.

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    Oh no, I knew, I read the post.
    The even bigger issue here is not just online "dating" (ooooohh~) or age, its called privacy and just being respectful of the other person.
    Just imagine, if you sir had told me you had just done something really embarrassing -insert embarrassing event here- in a personal message to me.
    and I hopped on by to the public forums and posted for everyone to see. You would be totally fine wouldnt you. totally fine.
    That was what I was trying to get at in my initial post if you didnt hint on my sarcasm.
    But yes, the age is also an issue, you nearly (yes I saw the name in your earlier post) cost someone their account, even though it was against the rules.
    Just, try to be a little more respectful maybe

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    Quote Originally Posted by Zaltiar View Post
    Oh no, I knew, I read the post.
    The even bigger issue here is not just online "dating" (ooooohh~) or age, its called privacy and just being respectful of the other person.
    Just imagine, if you sir had told me you had just done something really embarrassing -insert embarrassing event here- in a personal message to me.
    and I hopped on by to the public forums and posted for everyone to see. You would be totally fine wouldnt you. totally fine.
    That was what I was trying to get at in my initial post if you didnt hint on my sarcasm.
    But yes, the age is also an issue, you nearly (yes I saw the name in your earlier post) cost someone their account, even though it was against the rules.
    Just, try to be a little more respectful maybe
    I did thought about the privacy when Worship posted the names, but he changed it so I kinda backed off on it. But that's why, privacy is an issue for some reasons.
    I was mainly thinking about the age because what Zaltiar said, it'll cost someone their account. & it's against the rules because of the age.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Zaltiar View Post
    Oh no, I knew, I read the post.
    The even bigger issue here is not just online "dating" (ooooohh~) or age, its called privacy and just being respectful of the other person.
    Just imagine, if you sir had told me you had just done something really embarrassing -insert embarrassing event here- in a personal message to me.
    and I hopped on by to the public forums and posted for everyone to see. You would be totally fine wouldnt you. totally fine.
    That was what I was trying to get at in my initial post if you didnt hint on my sarcasm.
    But yes, the age is also an issue, you nearly (yes I saw the name in your earlier post) cost someone their account, even though it was against the rules.
    Just, try to be a little more respectful maybe
    And this is why Zaltiar is the star gaurd and not us lolz..

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    Quote Originally Posted by XxReiReixX View Post
    And this is why Zaltiar is the star gaurd and not us lolz..
    So true.. So very true xD lolol

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    Quote Originally Posted by Zaltiar View Post
    Oh no, I knew, I read the post.
    The even bigger issue here is not just online "dating" (ooooohh~) or age, its called privacy and just being respectful of the other person.
    Just imagine, if you sir had told me you had just done something really embarrassing -insert embarrassing event here- in a personal message to me.
    and I hopped on by to the public forums and posted for everyone to see. You would be totally fine wouldnt you. totally fine.
    That was what I was trying to get at in my initial post if you didnt hint on my sarcasm.
    But yes, the age is also an issue, you nearly (yes I saw the name in your earlier post) cost someone their account, even though it was against the rules.
    Just, try to be a little more respectful maybe
    Well im not trying to hurt this girls feelings or anything. She never reads the forums and her account name is crossed out.. (yes i forgot about it in the earlier thread but it is fixed)
    and she said this less than a minute after meeting me. its common sense not to post people's private business here, because i dont see how that is private business.. If they were a friend of mine, i wouldnt embarrass them either. but i just wondered if online dating over sts games was ever an issue..

    note that im just putting that as an example, not trying to use this directly towards someone

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    Quote Originally Posted by Worship View Post
    Well im not trying to hurt this girls feelings or anything. She never reads the forums and her account name is crossed out.. (yes i forgot about it in the earlier thread but it is fixed)
    and she said this less than a minute after meeting me. its common sense not to post people's private business here, because i dont see how that is private business.. If they were a friend of mine, i wouldnt embarrass them either. but i just wondered if online dating over sts games was ever an issue..

    note that im just putting that as an example, not trying to use this directly towards someone
    It can become an issue if that girl ever makes an account on STS forum. It's just those "What if" crap..
    & to answer your curiosity, online dating over STS games was never an issue when I got into STS.

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    Online dating is fine with me just as long as they don't start to argue with each other in global chat.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Commanderkeen View Post
    Online dating is fine with me just as long as they don't start to argue with each other in global chat.
    I agree, I sometimes see arguments like that in SL, but I usually just go to a different Blackstar Base lol.

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