Okay, I take back about you being selfish blah blah blah, but you have to understand why I said that. If you suppress your friends and don't let them hang around with other guys, you're not a true and caring friend. A good friend wants his best friend to be happy, no matter what. Ask your friend. Maybe he doesn't like you being around him "too much"? Thanks to very smart people, we can transfer awkward conversations to bleep bleep text text smiley . Good luck!