Today about 3 people told me I was a bad rogue, that I didnt have good stats, and refused to run with me. I am a new endgamer and don't have much gold. I can't afford "good" items.
I didnt put full dex like most rogues do because I feel like I need more health. So i put a few in stength and I think a few in Intelligence.
My stats with a Samael pet were:

Strength: 190
Health: 4,072

Dexterity: 545
Bonus Damage: 373%
Dodge: 41.88%
Critical: 45.86%
Damage: 410.8

Intelligence: 24
Mana: 365

Dps: 672.3
Armor: 1713

I had:
Shadow Veil 5/5
Shadow Piercer 5/5
Combat Medic 5/5
Razor sheild 5/5

Passives:
Agility 5/5
Might 5/5
Damage 5/5
Durable 5/5
Critical shot 5/5

Now my stats after respec. I put everything into dex. So now its full dex. My stats feel worse.
With samael pet it is:

Strength: 170
Health: 3,985

Dexterity: 579
Bonus damage: 390%
Dodge: 44.43%
Critical: 46.78%
Damage 432.0

Intelligence: 19
Mana: 315

Dps: 706.9
Armor: 1,713

I changed the skills because I rarely use health.
Now it is:
Shadow piercer: 4/5 (everythig except hit 3 mobs)
Razor sheild: 5/5
Aimed Shot 5/5
Shadow Veil: 5/5

Passives:
Agility 5/5
Might 5/5
Knowledge 1/5
Durable 5/5
Critical Shot 5/5
Damage 5/5

The gear that I use are:
Weapon: Magma Blades of Brutality [level 44]
(175.2 dps, 22 strength, 44 dex. Chance to proc Fireball cast on attack. It has 2 grand fire gems. +6 Dex each)

Helmet: Supreme Hood of Force [Level 44]
(29 Str, 47 Dex, 3.47% Crit, 605 Armor. It has 1 cracked finesse jewel[+1 dex] , 1 damaged finesse jewel [+2 dex])

Armor: Foragers Tunic of Force [Level 44]
(31 Str, 50 Dex, 3.69% Crit, 1,009 Armor. It has a fortified nature jewel [+60 health], and fortified diamond jewel [+18 armor])

Belt: none

Ring: Impressive Ring of Force [Level 46]
(28 Str, 46 Dex, 3.39% crit. It has 2 weak nature jewels [+36 health each])

Amulet: Prospector Amulet of Force [Level 46]
(29 Str, 47 Dex, 3.47% Crit. It has 2 standard nature jewels [ +48 health each]

Yeah, I know I should be using finesse jewels. But I havent gotten any from ren gol maps yet and don't really feel like buying since it is kind of a lot.

So, what can I do to fix my stats. Im up for any tips. I will respec again if I have to (I probably will). Thank you for reading all this! You can also recommend gear, but I dont have much gold. I will save up if I have to.