HearTbroken!!

**icantgetkills** · 01-14-2011, 09:51 AM

Originally Posted by Mysticaldream

Aww. Sorry to hear that christina, and by sorry, I mean sorry he was so stupid...

I've been cheated on before too, and it sucks, but I wasn't cheated on in a real serious relationship so I can't really relate. You'll find someone that is deserving and caring enough. His loss. To me, cheating says a lot about a person. It says they're selfish, and greedy. Don't let his bad decision effect you, as things do come around, and you'll be granted with someone that can treat you right

You deserve much better.

Just a random question as I'm 100% not sure aint u 13 so why would a 13 year old want to cheat XD please correct me if I'm wrong maybe its someone else o.O

**Christina** · 01-14-2011, 08:38 PM

Originally Posted by icantgetkills

Lol he cheated on u o.O thought it would be other way around LOL look at him baha he'll regret it eventually then can just be like ... U cheated on me gtfo

?? I cheated on u?

**icantgetkills** · 01-14-2011, 08:42 PM

No when he wants u back u can just be like u cheated on me gtfo

**KingFu** · 01-14-2011, 08:42 PM

Originally Posted by icantgetkills

Just a random question as I'm 100% not sure aint u 13 so why would a 13 year old want to cheat XD please correct me if I'm wrong maybe its someone else o.O

I'm 14, and no clue why, I didn't really ask her, lol.

**icantgetkills** · 01-14-2011, 08:56 PM

Originally Posted by Mysticaldream

I'm 14, and no clue why, I didn't really ask her, lol.

Ah k lol rightio :L

**Christina** · 01-14-2011, 09:48 PM

Thanks all

**SuicideKings** · 01-14-2011, 11:59 PM

Christina, I'm sorry for HIS lost and I'm sorry for your twirled emotions... Simply put, HE didn't deserve you... And to be honest, I've actually been the one to cheat... But that was once. No, it's not forgivable and yes it does suck having been done to you. The best thing to do is move on and be happy, plus there are more studs in this world that actually have a heart and is determined to make the relationship lasting and loving, but you just have to find the right one, use your gut instincts.

Regards
Mike

**Junside** · 01-15-2011, 12:04 AM

Why is it always "his" loss? Maybe that's why he made his mind to go cheat. You're all goo-goo eyed over this girl. xD

Of course, it could just be that you are her friend, but I'm going to stick with my first theory.

**Christina** · 01-15-2011, 06:06 AM

Originally Posted by Junside

Why is it always "his" loss? Maybe that's why he made his mind to go cheat. You're all goo-goo eyed over this girl. xD

Of course, it could just be that you are her friend, but I'm going to stick with my first theory.

Thanks for saying that.. Maybe its my loss..

**KingFu** · 01-15-2011, 06:09 AM

Originally Posted by Christina

Thanks for saying that.. Maybe its my loss..

Christina, it wasn't your loss. He cheated on you, which says a LOT about him. That he's selfish, and inconsiderate, deep down inside. You didn't loose anything, you got yourself free from a jerk like that. I don't meant to insult him, but he is asking for it. It was his loss, no matter what anyone says. You didn't loose anything, like I said. Just don't let him manipulate you later on, he cheated on you, and lost his chance. That's all I can say, and forgive and forget, just move on, you'll find someone better and more deserving of you.

**Christina** · 01-15-2011, 06:14 AM

Well i think partly is my fault.. Imma a model.. Sometimes i don hav time for him.. Because of my photoshoot and work stuff.. I felt bad..

**KingFu** · 01-15-2011, 06:16 AM

Originally Posted by Christina

Well i think partly is my fault.. Imma a model.. Sometimes i don hav time for him.. Because of my photoshoot and work stuff.. I felt bad..

Don't feel bad, if that was what bothered him he could've broken up, or talked to you about it rather than going off and cheating. No matter what his excuse may be, he cheated, and was selfish and inconsiderate. You deserve much better. Don't feel guilty, as he could've handled the situation much better if this really was a problem for him.

**Junside** · 01-15-2011, 08:09 AM

I want to listen to both sides of the story before I can point fingers and make a full judgment on his character.

What Christina can do: Move on.

Reason: There are millions of men (or women if you swing that way) in the world. The only thing that hurts are built memories, but courtship-wise, you have an endless sea of people to try. Hopefully the next guy you meet is more in-tune with your lifestyle and availability.

**Christina** · 01-15-2011, 01:02 PM

I hope so..

**Artemis** · 01-15-2011, 01:15 PM

I have been cheated on 16 times. I counted i got a lil tally chart on my notebooks.(Kidding) but that is the real amount. It gets better though dont worry.