I agree with the others about 3 str and 2 dex each time you level. The build I'm going with is 173 str and 111 dex by 56.
As for skills, it is important to max your buffs asap, esapecially iron blood and evade. ( they will keep you alive). As for rage, max it to because it is a great source of crit damage for bears. As for taunt, leave it at one because it is all you need for mob control. Debuffs are just as important as buffs and super mega slash is the best slash for bears. Futhermore, don't increase restore because you have health pots instead. (unless you want to pvp).

Hope this helps.