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    Unhappy Life Problem

    Since like last term my best friend was being best friends with another guy. But, my best friend and I never officially said we were like best friends, but it was obvious, we used to always hang out together and only us two, nobody interrupting our relationship. Since high school my best friend was being best friends with another guy, it made my heart feel so bad, what do I do?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Suchislife View Post
    Since like last term my best friend was being best friends with another guy. But, my best friend and I never officially said we were like best friends, but it was obvious, we used to always hang out together and only us two, nobody interrupting our relationship. Since high school my best friend was being best friends with another guy, it made my heart feel so bad, what do I do?
    It's possible to have multiple best friends! Don't feel so bad. My best friend has two best friends other than me atm, but I know she still thinks of me as a best friend! Also my other best friend has another best friend, but he still considers me as a best friend!

    I guess that's what you call best-friendception.

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    Stop hating guys. Anyways, some people like to have other friends. If he doesn't want to be friends anymore then find another one. Life is constantly changing and moving.

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    a lot of BFFs end up being BFFNs.

    just get moar friends. you can worry about being tied down to one person later in life.
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    I just feel left out cos he doesnt really talk to me that much as before anymore... But idk how im selfish. But I guess I am for wanting my friend to stay with me.

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    I feel for you, bro. But, you know what they say. "Suchislife"
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    Even your name is such is life.

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    Okay, I take back about you being selfish blah blah blah, but you have to understand why I said that. If you suppress your friends and don't let them hang around with other guys, you're not a true and caring friend. A good friend wants his best friend to be happy, no matter what. Ask your friend. Maybe he doesn't like you being around him "too much"? Thanks to very smart people, we can transfer awkward conversations to bleep bleep text text smiley . Good luck!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Noodleleg View Post
    Okay, I take back about you being selfish blah blah blah, but you have to understand why I said that. If you suppress your friends and don't let them hang around with other guys, you're not a true and caring friend. A good friend wants his best friend to be happy, no matter what. Ask your friend. Maybe he doesn't like you being around him "too much"? Thanks to very smart people, we can transfer awkward conversations to bleep bleep text text smiley . Good luck!
    THANKS! Yeah, but I didnt suppress my friend, I didnt say anything, he just like kinda never hangs out with me in school.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Suchislife View Post
    THANKS! Yeah, but I didnt suppress my friend, I didnt say anything, he just like kinda never hangs out with me in school.
    Maybe it's just time to move on? Some friends stay with us through life...through the good stuff and more importantly through the bad. Other friends drift in and out of your life. To be a good friend you have to accept this and give them space. If they truly are your best friend they will come back to you. If not? Believe me you will find better friends. Don't take it to heart. Be happy

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    Quote Originally Posted by Suchislife View Post
    THANKS! Yeah, but I didnt suppress my friend, I didnt say anything, he just like kinda never hangs out with me in school.
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    First year of high school this year for myself, and my friends changed by getting caught up with drinking and popularity. I reached out to other people, my soccer team for instance. I've always been good friends with them, played years of soccer with them, and I never took the time to realize that I would always have a good time with them. Now I'm even closer with them... If you feel like making friends can be a little tough, try joining a club/team/sport. You'd be surprised with how many people you can connect with.

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    Quote Originally Posted by drewcapu View Post
    a lot of BFFs end up being BFFNs.

    just get moar friends. you can worry about being tied down to one person later in life.
    Ya. When u find that speshul one it's game over. Gfs/bfs r such a friendblockers.

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    Quote Originally Posted by dudetus View Post
    Ya. When u find that speshul one it's game over. Gfs/bfs r such a friendblockers.
    As odd as your statement was, I actually agree. There's no need for relationships like that. If you like some guy/girl just be best friends.

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    dude that post made me cry .I had lots of best friends but you know when you grow up its time to move on and increase your friend circle,just dont forget he was your friend but think it is time your paths dont meet anymore,when people pass highschool, they go to college and meet new people there,it doesnt mean they forget their old friends, it means they are focussed on their goals in life like job,career and may not have time for you.Such is life people come people go,you just have to walk towards your goal

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    I'd like to add though, that a true friend will always stay in contact if possible.

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    Thanks gus! But I still dont know what to do!

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    Rule #1: Friends will use you. If a relationship is not symbiotic, cut it loose.

    Rule #2: If he doesn't care about you, don't care about him. Adds on to Rule #1^^

    Rule #3: The only true friends in your life are those who care about your health & success in the future. The others are just temporary accomplices that are there to distract you from reaching your full potential in life. Use them and dump them, as they will use you and dump you.

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    ^^^

    Oh, and if you need a friend, talk to that guy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Apollo View Post
    Rule #1: Friends will use you. If a relationship is not symbiotic, cut it loose.

    Rule #2: If he doesn't care about you, don't care about him. Adds on to Rule #1^^

    Rule #3: The only true friends in your life are those who care about your health & success in the future. The others are just temporary accomplices that are there to distract you from reaching your full potential in life. Use them and dump them, as they will use you and dump you.

    Such is life.
    Ouch.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Doodlebeast View Post
    Ouch.
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