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Christina
01-13-2011, 02:12 AM
I found out my bf was actually dating another girl.. We broke up but i still miss him..
2 years relationship jus ended in an instant.. Crap!!!

http://i1118.photobucket.com/albums/k619/Christina3821/02040c76.jpg

Tear drip everytime i see the pic..

Zeus
01-13-2011, 02:14 AM
Aw, no wonder you haven't been on. This really sucks, as I too was cheated on, although I think 2 or 3 times? Although with different people. It get's better though, don't worry, you will move on and find someone better who will actually care for you and want to be a part of your life.

Ellyidol
01-13-2011, 02:16 AM
Aw, no wonder you haven't been on. This really sucks, as I too was cheated on, although I think 2 or 3 times? Although with different people. It get's better though, don't worry, you will move on and find someone better who will actually care for you and want to be a part of your life.

+1.

A couple of times also. I'm glad it happened though, I can't be happier with my girl now, and without those past experiences, I wouldn't have met her. :)

Take it easy, his loss.

Zealous
01-13-2011, 02:45 AM
His loss. You'll find someone who will actually love and care for you in the future, like range has said.

Hope you feel better,
Zeal

RedRyder
01-13-2011, 02:45 AM
I myself have been cheated on, count em, 10x.
It really is his loss! There's plenty of hunks on here so don't worry haha

Zeus
01-13-2011, 02:49 AM
I myself have been cheated on, count em, 10x.
It really is his loss! There's plenty of hunks on here so don't worry haha

Dang! Ok I might have cut back on my cheating numbers a bit for my sake lol, lets make that 5 :).

@Christina, I know you are hurting over him, due to the time and trust you have spent with him, but it will pass when you find someone better that want's to share his life with you and get to know yours.

Christina
01-13-2011, 08:26 AM
Hopefully i can get over.. 2years relationship ended in an instant >.< this few days been goin out to drink.. Best way not to think is to drink.. Yep rang i hav not been on pl recently.. Not in the mood to do so sigh..

Kossi
01-13-2011, 08:29 AM
his loss .

StompArtist
01-13-2011, 08:30 AM
Hopefully i can get over.. 2years relationship ended in an instant >.< this few days been goin out to drink.. Best way not to think is to drink.. Yep rang i hav not been on pl recently.. Not in the mood to do so sigh..

Worst thing you can do. Drinking won't make the problem go away and drinking to deal with problems is the start of a very painful journey. Go the the zoo or something, monkeys always cheer me up!

Echelong
01-13-2011, 08:34 AM
Don't worry about that its not your loss its his. You are still young and may find more disappointments but experience will only make you stronger and wiser. Also drinking about him is not the way to go it could make you do things you will regret for the rest of your life.

Junside
01-13-2011, 08:39 AM
Lol she posted a picture so everyone on forums knows the face of the cheater. XD

This is why I stay single. Less stress and more fun :P

DawnInfinity
01-13-2011, 09:01 AM
Aww, I'm sorry Christina. Definitely his loss. You deserve better :o

Christina
01-13-2011, 01:38 PM
Once again.. Imma drunk.. Lol.. Thanks all for the comfort.. Right now can onli drink to numb myself first.. If not i find it hard to slp with no1 by my side..

FluffNStuff
01-13-2011, 01:43 PM
Once again.. Imma drunk.. Lol.. Thanks all for the comfort.. Right now can onli drink to numb myself first.. If not i find it hard to slp with no1 by my side..

My I ask how old you are?

Cascade
01-13-2011, 01:49 PM
She's 22...No I'm not stalking her

Christina
01-14-2011, 12:51 AM
23 tis year

Junside
01-14-2011, 03:03 AM
Go vent your emotions out on those poor victims of your pvp spree lmao

Ersana
01-14-2011, 07:01 AM
Hey look she's better off then me my gf broke up with my best friend for me dumped me and went back to him.

KingFu
01-14-2011, 07:51 AM
Aww. Sorry to hear that christina, and by sorry, I mean sorry he was so stupid...

I've been cheated on before too, and it sucks, but I wasn't cheated on in a real serious relationship so I can't really relate. You'll find someone that is deserving and caring enough. His loss. To me, cheating says a lot about a person. It says they're selfish, and greedy. Don't let his bad decision effect you, as things do come around, and you'll be granted with someone that can treat you right:) You deserve much better.

icantgetkills
01-14-2011, 09:50 AM
Lol he cheated on u o.O thought it would be other way around LOL look at him baha he'll regret it eventually then can just be like ... U cheated on me gtfo

icantgetkills
01-14-2011, 09:51 AM
Aww. Sorry to hear that christina, and by sorry, I mean sorry he was so stupid...

I've been cheated on before too, and it sucks, but I wasn't cheated on in a real serious relationship so I can't really relate. You'll find someone that is deserving and caring enough. His loss. To me, cheating says a lot about a person. It says they're selfish, and greedy. Don't let his bad decision effect you, as things do come around, and you'll be granted with someone that can treat you right:) You deserve much better.

Just a random question as I'm 100% not sure aint u 13 so why would a 13 year old want to cheat XD please correct me if I'm wrong maybe its someone else o.O

Christina
01-14-2011, 08:38 PM
Lol he cheated on u o.O thought it would be other way around LOL look at him baha he'll regret it eventually then can just be like ... U cheated on me gtfo

?? I cheated on u?

icantgetkills
01-14-2011, 08:42 PM
No when he wants u back u can just be like u cheated on me gtfo

KingFu
01-14-2011, 08:42 PM
Just a random question as I'm 100% not sure aint u 13 so why would a 13 year old want to cheat XD please correct me if I'm wrong maybe its someone else o.O

I'm 14, and no clue why, I didn't really ask her, lol.

icantgetkills
01-14-2011, 08:56 PM
I'm 14, and no clue why, I didn't really ask her, lol.
Ah k lol rightio :L

Christina
01-14-2011, 09:48 PM
Thanks all

SuicideKings
01-14-2011, 11:59 PM
Christina, I'm sorry for HIS lost and I'm sorry for your twirled emotions... Simply put, HE didn't deserve you... And to be honest, I've actually been the one to cheat... But that was once. No, it's not forgivable and yes it does suck having been done to you. The best thing to do is move on and be happy, plus there are more studs in this world that actually have a heart and is determined to make the relationship lasting and loving, but you just have to find the right one, use your gut instincts.

Regards
Mike

Junside
01-15-2011, 12:04 AM
Why is it always "his" loss? Maybe that's why he made his mind to go cheat. You're all goo-goo eyed over this girl. xD

Of course, it could just be that you are her friend, but I'm going to stick with my first theory.

Christina
01-15-2011, 06:06 AM
Why is it always "his" loss? Maybe that's why he made his mind to go cheat. You're all goo-goo eyed over this girl. xD

Of course, it could just be that you are her friend, but I'm going to stick with my first theory.

Thanks for saying that.. Maybe its my loss..

KingFu
01-15-2011, 06:09 AM
Thanks for saying that.. Maybe its my loss..

Christina, it wasn't your loss. He cheated on you, which says a LOT about him. That he's selfish, and inconsiderate, deep down inside. You didn't loose anything, you got yourself free from a jerk like that. I don't meant to insult him, but he is asking for it. It was his loss, no matter what anyone says. You didn't loose anything, like I said. Just don't let him manipulate you later on, he cheated on you, and lost his chance. That's all I can say, and forgive and forget, just move on, you'll find someone better and more deserving of you.

Christina
01-15-2011, 06:14 AM
Well i think partly is my fault.. Imma a model.. Sometimes i don hav time for him.. Because of my photoshoot and work stuff.. I felt bad..

KingFu
01-15-2011, 06:16 AM
Well i think partly is my fault.. Imma a model.. Sometimes i don hav time for him.. Because of my photoshoot and work stuff.. I felt bad..

Don't feel bad, if that was what bothered him he could've broken up, or talked to you about it rather than going off and cheating. No matter what his excuse may be, he cheated, and was selfish and inconsiderate. You deserve much better. Don't feel guilty, as he could've handled the situation much better if this really was a problem for him.

Junside
01-15-2011, 08:09 AM
I want to listen to both sides of the story before I can point fingers and make a full judgment on his character.

What Christina can do: Move on.

Reason: There are millions of men (or women if you swing that way) in the world. The only thing that hurts are built memories, but courtship-wise, you have an endless sea of people to try. Hopefully the next guy you meet is more in-tune with your lifestyle and availability.

Christina
01-15-2011, 01:02 PM
I hope so..

Artemis
01-15-2011, 01:15 PM
I have been cheated on 16 times. I counted i got a lil tally chart on my notebooks.(Kidding) but that is the real amount. It gets better though dont worry.

KingFu
01-15-2011, 01:18 PM
Have u ever cheated lyric?:rolleyes:

Artemis
01-15-2011, 01:19 PM
Never have never will.

Christina
01-15-2011, 01:20 PM
Good to hear that

Christina
01-15-2011, 01:22 PM
Don cheat cos girl's heart r as fragile as glass..

KingFu
01-15-2011, 01:22 PM
Don cheat cos girl's heart r as fragile as glass..

Or seran wrap O_+

Artemis
01-15-2011, 01:24 PM
Don cheat cos girl's heart r as fragile as glass..

+1 People need to realise that.

KingFu
01-15-2011, 01:28 PM
+1 People need to realise that.

What about guys hearts? O_+

Christina
01-15-2011, 01:36 PM
Seran wrap??

KingFu
01-15-2011, 01:39 PM
Seran wrap??

Yes sir ree bob

Junside
01-15-2011, 01:47 PM
?? I cheated on u?


Put what in?


Seran wrap??

Mystic you confuse the hell out of her.

lmaooooooo

Christina
01-15-2011, 01:50 PM
Yes indeed u confuse me

KingFu
01-15-2011, 01:50 PM
Mystic you confuse the hell out of her.

lmaooooooo

I didn't confuse her the fisrt quote. The other 2 sound VERY gross.

Junside
01-15-2011, 01:55 PM
I didn't confuse her the fisrt quote. The other 2 sound VERY gross.

The latter two are you, I think. :D

Firepants
01-15-2011, 02:05 PM
I have read through this whole dang thing and now I'm depressed... Lol. Man, 2 years is a long time. I can't imagine how you feel. I have never been cheated on, but maybe that's because I'm suppa picky. I mean really really picky lol. Meh, I don't understand why people don't just say they want to see other people or they want to break up. He must be Pretty selfish. Kick it with the girls for awhile. Those times are always the most awesome anyways!!

P.S. Don't get back with him for anything. If he cheated once, he will again.

KingFu
01-15-2011, 07:44 PM
The latter two are you, I think. :D

Yep, and they don't sound like what she meant;)

Artemis
01-15-2011, 07:48 PM
I think i hold the Pl record for most times cheated on.

KingFu
01-15-2011, 07:48 PM
I think i hold the Pl record for most times cheated on.

I'm still curious as to if you've cheated on someone :rolleyes:

Junside
01-15-2011, 08:01 PM
I think i hold the Pl record for most times cheated on.

If you're so prone to it, find a solution.

Oh yeah, you already have xD

Artemis
01-15-2011, 08:24 PM
I'm still curious as to if you've cheated on someone :rolleyes:

I swear i havnt

KingFu
01-15-2011, 08:28 PM
I swear i havnt

So you've never cheated on a guy?

Artemis
01-15-2011, 08:31 PM
So you've never cheated on a guy?

Not that i know of. Nope

KingFu
01-15-2011, 08:35 PM
Not that i know of. Nope

How about a girl?:rolleyes:

Artemis
01-15-2011, 08:37 PM
How about a girl?:rolleyes:

Im not gay.

KingFu
01-15-2011, 08:44 PM
Im not gay.

http://i201.photobucket.com/albums/aa262/sblivin_album/Honesty.jpg

Hehejk

Christina
01-16-2011, 12:39 AM
I nvr cheat on my bf.. I stay with onli 1 partner.. But my job don let me hav much time spendin with him