I'm very nervous :( someone please tell me what to do

[LIGHTNINGLORD67]

I met this girl through FB (yeah, someone different, not in school), and she tells me she wants to webcam. At first I wasn't sure, but when I saw she goes to the same high school as me I thought wel, why not give it a try. But seeing as I have never met her before but only through FB, I am nervous to webcam :(

She requested it right now but since I got nervous I said I had to go because my mom wants to take me shopping (not really), so that gives me about an hour on what to do. What do I do!?

[DawnInfinity]

I certainly wouldn't webcam with someone you aren't comfortable with webcamming. Talk to her a little more, if that would make you more comfortable. If you don't want to webcam with her, then tell her straight up. She'd appreciate it a lot if you just told her the truth rather than making up excuses.

[LIGHTNINGLORD67]

I certainly wouldn't webcam with someone you aren't comfortable with webcamming. Talk to her a little more, if that would make you more comfortable. If you don't want to webcam with her, then tell her straight up. She'd appreciate it a lot if you just told her the truth rather than making up excuses.

Thanks Dawn :)

[DawnInfinity]

Thanks Dawn :)

Maybe meet up with her at school if she goes to the same school as you.

[LIGHTNINGLORD67]

Maybe meet up with her at school if she goes to the same school as you.

Ya, I could :P

[Junside]

Show up in a Volkwagon Golf with your hair all up and a pale blue trench coat

[DawnInfinity]

Ya, I could :P
Yeah, IMO I would do that. Especially since there are a lot more people there. :) Just in case she's not who you think she is, that was you can escape!

[Physiologic]

There's a time in a boy's life where he becomes a man. This is the time.

[jjjjaaaakkkke]

"My mom wants to take me shopping." I've never heard that excuse before.. LOL

[LIGHTNINGLORD67]

There's a time in a boy's life where he becomes a man. This is the time.

I've gone way past that time, trust me.

[noobmigo]

I once said "sorry, i was opening christmas presents" in March when this really hot girl got mad at me about not answering her damn texts. Man was I nervous.

[DawnInfinity]

I once said "sorry, i was opening christmas presents" in March when this really hot girl got mad at me about not answering her damn texts. Man was I nervous.

Lmao! That's a good one.

[noobmigo]

That was the first thing that came to my mind...now....I know better. ;)

[Anyrra]

I would also say just meet up with her if youre not comfortable.

[Kossi]

"My mom wants to take me shopping." I've never heard that excuse before.. LOL

Ive used "sorry, i was about to go to sleep >.>"

[noobmigo]

Ive used "sorry, i was about to go to sleep >.>"

Man, she was probably IMAGINING!! ;)

[Kossi]

FDR's excuse was polio. Whats yours?

[Rebel]

Sorry, the toilet was beckoning. Of course, I only used that with a girl I was really comfortable with. Neighbors for like 8 years.

[Inching]

going shopping with your mom is not very manly but whatever u said it.... do it, i would web cam her for sure~!!! what u thinking man..... what u do is setup and connect but click OFF ur camera so u can see her and she cant see you.

U tell her ur fixing the settings and in that time u get to see what she looks like ... but anyway... if she goes to the same school, chances are she already knows what you look like so no big deal anyway...

[DawnInfinity]

My usual excuse is "I'm about to take a nap" or "I'm busy"

[LIGHTNINGLORD67]

Everyone RELAX...

I have resolved this conflict :)