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acewasabi
06-16-2017, 07:33 PM
Hi JustG, I don't intend any disrespect in quoting you for a thread title, but the thread I got it from has been closed so I cannot reply. As someone who has received pretty ugly abuse from random players, including sexual assault threats against myself and my family, I can tell you that it does not always take two to tango. I gave up reporting these players because nothing is ever done about it- I know, because I put them on ignore and I can still see them on that list.

It is unacceptable to suggest that simply ignoring players is the solution. Many, many people have complained on forums about being harassed by multiple accounts. STS has created a mostly great community, but you also have a responsibility to that community. Why is that scammers and abusers are so rarely banned even when reported? They absolutely taint the game and many people's enjoyment of it. Remember, we have children playing this game, who should not be exposed to that kind of behaviour. Also, once someone has been scammed or abused they are more likely to do it to others, especially when they see people getting away with the most outrageous things.

I understand that very often it does take two to tango, esp with PVP trash-talking. But if your comment is indicative of STS's attitude towards abuse, in that it must always somehow be deserved, I guess that could explain the perceived inaction. Sad, because I love this game. I hope I'm wrong; the forum is monitored closely which I appreciate. I just wish ingame stuff would be monitored to the same degree.

Again, no disrespect intended. I genuinely want to discuss this as it's something I've seen again and again during my years here.

Bmlty
06-16-2017, 07:49 PM
There's something called a pm

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Eagle Eye229
06-16-2017, 08:11 PM
Someones friend got scammed i take it.

Hint: be vigilant and you wont get scammed, ever. Its not that hard and if people dont want to take the time to be careful with the stuff they care about it scares me cause beyond these pixels there is a big scary world out there and is going to eat you alive.

Ckash
06-16-2017, 08:12 PM
.......... all i said to the guy was "ignored cuz u have no life" ...that's why Justg said that quote about it takes two to tango. If you see someone spamming, just report them..it actually does work, I witnessed the powers. Move along and enjoy the game..From my own experience, I never got constant random rude pm's for no reason, what so ever, out the blue. Maybe I'm just lucky.... so far?

#NoTaunting

Terminhater
06-16-2017, 08:44 PM
I've had random rude PMs out of the blue. Trying to trash talk me, some I roast when I need a good laugh and others I just put on ignore list. Oh and sometimes I report.

shame
06-16-2017, 09:48 PM
i posted ss on forums cuz they discriminated against my ill mom, simply "ignoring" them wont help, its against TOS so ppl like that should get banned without questioning, and to top it off he said sts cant do sh!its lmao.

Horme
06-16-2017, 10:17 PM
They need to upgrade/add chat filter example:
-Friend Only
-Off Chat

Horme
06-16-2017, 10:21 PM
i posted ss on forums cuz they discriminated against my ill mom, simply "ignoring" them wont help, its against TOS so ppl like that should get banned without questioning, and to top it off he said sts cant do sh!its lmao.

You shouldn't tell peoples regarding your life information so much.

Justg
06-19-2017, 11:47 AM
As someone who has received pretty ugly abuse from random players, including sexual assault threats against myself and my family, I can tell you that it does not always take two to tango.

We very much dislike scammers, and absolutely hate any kind of racist, misogynist, or bullying behavior. We will ban for it, but you need to report it. And then ignore the individuals.

You said to the individual in question: "ignored cuz u have no life".

This is you, instigating further harassment. That is two, tango-ing.