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If you wanna talk about it, text me lyric. Or if you just need a friend you can text me too :).
He is scum you dont need him if I was older I would have pwned on him (not too much though) I would have been set with some steel toe boots as well.
If he cheated on you it means he doesnt need you and you dont need him forget him...it will be hard though, since you almost got married to the piece of crap...lame excuse for a man...no one should ever do that especially to you, you will move on, you will forget about him erase his number so if he were to call you, you will just assume its just a wrong number
I have complete faith that you will make it through this, but you will have your depressed time you should know its not your fault, and im glad you threw the chair at him he deserved it, his "partner" should be thankful that you didnt go farther
You have the strength I believe you do. One day the sun will rise once the sun will set on your memories of him. If you need help contact me through the times of 3:00 and 8:00 im really busy but not during those two times (usaully)
Never forgive and forget he murdered your love now its time to resurrect it...love will always find a way into the mind's of the ones that have been hurt
Hang in there lyric! I believe in you! I really do!
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lyric has probably went to sleep guys,it's 1:30am
Nothing lasts forever. A person who honors a promise is rare indeed. Just take comfort that you found out now and not years later when you have a family that keeps you bound regardless of how you feel. Learn from this, I hope you find happiness in the future.Quote:
Originally Posted by Artemis:510045
Ok go watch the no-no topics ep.9 by xxslyfoxhoundxx
I'm glad you didn't hurt anyone but I thought the chair-throw was spectacular. I'd keep the hole for a bit.
I, along with everyone else, am so sorry you have to go through this, but it probably IS for the better. A cheater will always cheat. One of my sisters just went through this and she was actually at one point at your place but she went through with the wedding -- a few years later, she's alone with children and he still cheated. It's kind of weird but it's like the year of the breakups...
The good thing: not everyone cheats. The bad thing: it's hard to tell the good ones.
It'll take time, but it'll get better. Eventually.
Dude elly you said exactly what was on my mind.
Betrayal is a terrible thing.
Best of luck to you, and try not to let your --->COMPLETELY JUSTIFIABLE<--- anger get the best of you and cause you to do something you might regret later.
Best regards,
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i admit to usually avoiding threads like this like the plague, but for something like this to happen to you... you have everybody's condolences. Good luck with the next few weeks, I can imagine they will be tough (if not for longer)...
here, I'll even edit in one of my favorite photos, full resolution and everything (upload may take me a minute)...
here we go.
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Same, elly hit the nail on the head in one of the first posts. I don't know you very well both I know ur one of the most respected people in the whole community and it's great that you felt you could post this here.
A big group hugs from us all.
As already said thank god you found out sooner rather than later.
Huge respect for the bleach trick, that's epic, and very well deserved. He's loss, what an idiot/loser.
I follow 'TheQuoteWhore' on twitter and she comes back with lots of amazing and wonderful quotes about life and thought I'd add a few which I thought were very suitable. Make sure you follow her, they're pretty amazing some of them.
But decided not to add any cos they're all so personal and I'd SO get it really wrong, just go and pick the best ones for you.
More big group hugs from us all.....
I think the song, Marvin's Room, by: Drake, would be appropriate for the situation... at least the chorus. Uhm, back to business. Sorry to hear about this Lyric, you deserve better. Just don't be quick to find someone else; recover. I could say anything said above, but it's already been stated. Also, I wouldn't suggest accepting any apologies, no matter what. If you do, you'll end up putting your heart ask risk again. Love is a peculiar thing ya know. Though even us, we think we understand love, don't quite get it. It's a developed subject. Maybe you really had love, idk. But I know the best thing to do is not put yourself down for it.
He doesn't deserve you then! Hopefully you'll find a man ten times better than that "garbage" in the near future!
That super sucks...but...
Omg, gurl... go stick your hand down that toilet and get that ring!!!!! Take that ring to the nearest pawn shop, and go to the spa... get a massage, facial, the works. Then go buy a new wardrobe to wear when you and a friend use the rest of the money to go on an awesome vaca.
Deeply sorry... An ex cheated on me (hence shes an ex). You'll be ok, time is a great healer. Also now he's gone you can enjoy the rest of your life without him in it. You'll find someone special who will treat you as you deserve to be, and it will happen when you least expect it.
Now go practice you chair throwing skills
What u need now is a laugh, go to the pet store and watch the puppies and kittens :) just have a good time!
That all depends on how the KO was achieved; there are numerous places on the human body that will force your opponent to go unconscious: a blow to the ear, disrupts the body’s equilibrium and can actually cause the inflicted to lose their balance and fall on their face effectively KO’ing themselves; a blow to the back of the head, hints why it’s illegal in gladiator sports such as boxing or mma; a nicely placed shot to the temple*. All of these tactics beg the question, did the individual actually "hurt," did the sensation of pain travel from the point of impact down the neuro pathways and up to the brain aka if a tree falls in the woods and no one is there to hear it, does it make a sound?
*Warning: Do not use any of the tactics above as they may cause serious harm to the unsuspecting person who is on the receiving end. However, in case of emergency/break-up they are very legal and effective ways to officially end the conflict in a matter of seconds.
I am sorry you are having to walk this journey, I realize how hurt and angry you are, though at the moment being agressive may seem like the answer.. In the long run it really is not.. Remeber using your mind and intelligent words in truth does more than agression.. Now is a great time to hit the gym.. Get out your agression in a positive manner, and keep yourself from plausable charges from agression, what youDONT want is to be arrested that punishes you in the long run..
As elly said it is hard to see but be glad you found out NOW after a wedding you have to endure so much more.. You are worth so much more! After working out get your self dressed up! Find a friend and go out, see the world and realize that you have a world at your hands! You do not need another to survive in this life it is a choice to share your life your future partner is not your keeper but your choice to share life with!!
Feel free to pm me if you need to vent or chat, DONT let him win by keeping to yourself... He looses as you pick yourself up..
Find things you are thankful for in your life and post them around your house its hard to see the sunlight but you can do it
Buy yourself an iPad. You deserve it!!!
Thanks guys... Been eating ice cream all day.. I wish i couldve found out someother time of the year! Christmas, New Years and my birthday have officially been ruined.
Do not dwell on what has already happened it will only make things worse, instead think about how great a future you can have now that the cheater is out of your life. :)
Artemis I am so sorry to hear this, but I know exactly how you feel. As far as knocking out that girl, I do the same thing. Why not? Everyone has become so complacent and willing to let everyone else take care of things, well you can bet your bottom dollar that I've beat up at least 3 guys over my exes (and current pregnant girlfriend). After the last one I got arrested, charged, fined, and you know what? I'd do it all over again. If you need anything, I'm here for you. Please pm me if you need anything. What kinda artemis would I be if I didn't try to help? Either way good luck, I've never seen your picture, but you have be so kind as far as I've seen, and that's all I need to know. :black_eyed:
Omg, :'(
EDIT: One More Day, It Always Gets Better
Kinda like the Queen from Narnia! :D
Wow, I don't really know how you feel but I am very sowwy :(
My buddy had the same thing happen to him. It sucks :(