Can Someone please clarify what's going on?

[Erik_is_funny_lol]

I was chatting with this girl on Facebook whom I know in real life a few days ago...we were chatting like we were best friends, and then everything turned around.

I have no idea why, I asked her why she has been quiet and then she said she's ignoring me. I asked why and she said "cuz I said so u msg me when your bored"

WTF! Everything was fine until this happened! Can someone please help me understand why she did this?

I might have a theorey though...there is this guy I hate and he is also Facebook friends with that girl, and he might have said bad stuff about me to her behind my back...could that be it? Someone please help I miss having chats with her

[Ladylove]

She thinks you only talk to her when you're bored? That's bad...

[Erik_is_funny_lol]

She thinks you only talk to her when you're bored? That's bad...

No, I always talk to her when I get the chance

She was saying "u msg me when ur bored" in a command type of way

[Junside]

Who cares? Other fish in the sea. You shouldn't have to beg or force her attention. Or react over lack of it.

[FluffNStuff]

I was chatting with this girl on Facebook whom I know in real life a few days ago...we were chatting like we were best friends, and then everything turned around.

I have no idea why, I asked her why she has been quiet and then she said she's ignoring me. I asked why and she said "cuz I said so u msg me when your bored"

WTF! Everything was fine until this happened! Can someone please help me understand why she did this?

I might have a theorey though...there is this guy I hate and he is also Facebook friends with that girl, and he might have said bad stuff about me to her behind my back...could that be it? Someone please help I miss having chats with her

I don't get this at all, there is something about this you are not explaining right. So she said that She is ignoring you, but she wants you to message her when you are bored? You sure she didn't say she will message you when she is bored?

[Erik_is_funny_lol]

I don't get this at all, there is something about this you are not explaining right. So she said that She is ignoring you, but she wants you to message her when you are bored? You sure she didn't say she will message you when she is bored?

I'm sure man! Everything I said in that post is correct

[Ladylove]

It sounds like you give her the idea that you only message her when she is bored... making her feel like your last resort and not a priority

[Erik_is_funny_lol]

It sounds like you give her the idea that you only message her when she is bored... making her feel like your last resort and not a priority

Thats strange though, cuz we used to talk like ALOT ://

[Ladylove]

Do you ever say anything about being bored when you talk to her? She might think you're talking about her..

[Erik_is_funny_lol]

Do you ever say anything about being bored when you talk to her? She might think you're talking about her..

Well, the only times I've mentioned the word "bored" was when I was doing my boring homework AND chatting with her at the same time, could that be it?

[giayuan]

probably not..go message the girls on here, theyll help

[Zeus]

Well, the only times I've mentioned the word "bored" was when I was doing my boring homework AND chatting with her at the same time, could that be it?

That most definitely is it. You NEVER tell a girl you are bored, NEVER! Gives them the wrong idea. When you were doing your boring homework it implied that you were bored and you came to her to chat with to help you with the boredom, which in fact does make it seem to her that you are her last resort, and judging by this, she kind of likes you otherwise she wouldn't bother to message you that.

[giayuan]

Well! range you certainly got Da experience here =)

[Erik_is_funny_lol]

Oh my god i swear im so dumb. What should I do now??

[Erik_is_funny_lol]

Sorry I can't let this thread go down

[Zeus]

You need to apologize to her, and prove to her somehow that when you said your homework was boring and you were talking to her, you didn't mean that you were bored and she was your last resort to rid your boredom.

[Junside]

You need to apologize to her, and prove to her somehow that when you said your homework was boring and you were talking to her, you didn't mean that you were bored and she was your last resort to rid your boredom.

I'm entirely against this.

[Zeus]

I'm entirely against this.

Well, he can also go the other way and... play hard to get, which might work out in his favor, but I thought that way wouldn't work in this situation, so I didn't give him that advice. I for one though well do it either way, depending on the situation.

[Ladylove]

Yeah.. when guys act bored I'm like "buh bye" and they're like "...what?"

[Erik_is_funny_lol]

You need to apologize to her, and prove to her somehow that when you said your homework was boring and you were talking to her, you didn't mean that you were bored and she was your last resort to rid your boredom.

How do I introduce the topic? I mean, is this good:

"Hey Suzy, I'm really sorry for all those times I said that I was bored. I was doing homework from a certain class that I hate, and when I was saying I was bored, I was referring to the homework assignment.

I was never bored when I was talking to you, you always kept my day full of happiness. Thats probably why u said I shouldn't message you unles I was bored, wasn't it? Well it's not true, and I would be crazy to say that I was bored while talking to you. Please I wanna chat like we used to again!"

Is that good?