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    Default Depression.

    How do you deal with it?
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    Friends, family, and doing what I truly love to do and not what others want/perceive me doing - gaming.

    Oh, and SWEETS!

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    No, things aren't. Family aren't a go to either. Gaming will only put me in a worse situation. Friends only make me feel more isolated.
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    Message me if you want to talk about it. Cheer up bud

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    I'm sure your not intending it to be so, but your tone feels patronizing. Which seems strange, as I find it easiest to express my feelings though text.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Necrobane View Post
    I'm sure your not intending it to be so, but your tone feels patronizing. Which seems strange, as I find it easiest to express my feelings though text.
    Just meant that if you want to talk privately, about whatever it is that's bothering you, shoot me a message

    And yes, I do feel that text makes it easier to express feelings. Minus sarcasm.

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    Is this situational depression or something you deal or have dealt with all your life?

    I am diagnosed severe chronic depression, and have had lots of therapy and take antidepressant Paxil. Works for me, still have dark sad days, on those days I stay busy and watch or listen to a lot of comedy, you know nonsensical type stuff that allows me to kind of escape. If you're younger than my 40+ years, I promise it does get easier, hang in there, there are people who care about you, talking via whatever method you prefer helps as well. Feel free to PM me as well.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ellyidol:451890
    Friends, family, and doing what I truly love to do and not what others want/perceive me doing - gaming.

    Oh, and SWEETS!

    Everything alright?
    Believe it or not, chocolate really does produce a chemical reaction within your body that does make one feel better. Love the stuff!
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    Gaming and Anime is my cure for depression.
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    Very interesting post..

    I was once severely depressed..
    i feel what saved me was that i always told myself things will get better..
    sucess will come from what you overcome as much as what you acheive.

    Keep your head up.

    And anyone is always free to contact me about anything.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sassinya View Post
    Is this situational depression or something you deal or have dealt with all your life?

    I am diagnosed severe chronic depression, and have had lots of therapy and take antidepressant Paxil. Works for me, still have dark sad days, on those days I stay busy and watch or listen to a lot of comedy, you know nonsensical type stuff that allows me to kind of escape. If you're younger than my 40+ years, I promise it does get easier, hang in there, there are people who care about you, talking via whatever method you prefer helps as well. Feel free to PM me as well.
    Don't give up, just keep doing the next right thing and the next good thing will happen!
    Things haven't changed, and it's been a few years, I'm starting to wonder that.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Necrobane View Post
    Things haven't changed, and it's been a few years, I'm starting to wonder that.
    PM me if you want to talk bud. I have gone through some severe depression myself that ends up making some surprise appearances.
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    Hey Necrobane!

    Listen, I have also been in a few years of depression (currently still am!) and I know many problems that one can have. If you feel the urge to talk, feel free to PM me because I've encountered many many different problems and I might be able to solve yours (yet no one can solve mine ) so PM me whenever you want to talk .
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    Quote Originally Posted by Necrobane:451888
    How do you deal with it?
    Keep yourself too busy / occupied to think about it, find a new hobby, job, friend.
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    i was depressed for a bit lately, and i found that once i was with friends, keeping myself busy with homework, and trying out for soccer, i almost never have time to feel depressed anymore. altho, it does sometimes randomly come back, i.e. last nite, but i got myself busy with things again today and feel fine now. pm me in game or on facebook (king brizo) if u want to talk about it, or need help kay? im here for ya, just gotta trust people and tell them. i found a few people i could tell, and they help me heaps. good luck, hope u feel better mate

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    I was depressed for a week nothing to cure but my mom treid to make me feel better it worked :/ but i couldnt sleep i didnt want to eat i wanted to avoid poeple and be alone and resting i had dark nightmares when i was depressed had dreams of murder :/ now im ok hope you get better though
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    My advice is:

    - Find what you're missing in life. A companion, a good time, etc. (Note: This isn't so easy, so I'm sorry if it comes out that way )
    - Broaden your horizon. By this I mean find a new hobby, try something out of the ordinary, learn about something new!
    - Be positive. There are so many great, beautiful things surrounding us! Lie down in the grass for an hour!

    I hope at least one of these can help you in the destructive position at this time. Everything will work out fine
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    That's a good question, the only person who can help you with that is you,just get over it and do what ever you want because you are not going to live forever and we only have one life to live so try to enjoy it as much as you can. I hope this will help you

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    "And even when your hope is gone! Move along, move along, just to make it through!"

    You got to endure to the end! I've been through that stage of life plenty of times. Just give me enough time to find something else to quote. Anyways just do a hobby, be social, bask in encouragement, and do some family activities.

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    Go for a hike in the woods or mountain, time to think by yourself on a walk can be very helpful in diagnosing the problem.

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