I have dyslexia. However that never stopped me from improving my english. My spelling still sucks but I compensate by using spell checkers. But that is beside the point. Maybe your condition affects you more then mine does me, but in anycase, you cannot blame the game for it.

Thanks for quoting devs. But what is your point behind it? Yep its true. Stats affect your character. int improves mana pool and regen. Dex improves hit%. But that has nothing to do with the fact you still need 61 dex for your bow..
Stats improve your character, but you still need to add stats in order to equip your bow.

Besides, if you're no scrooge, just spend 0.99 on a respec and add your stats such that you can equip the bow.