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    Quote Originally Posted by lethalchick View Post
    On the other hand, you get terrifying pm's. Usually they are half asterisks. I usually reply "uh thanks... I think". If they prove persistent I'll reply something like "why yes, this is indeed a lovely evening. Nice to meet you too". I know I could insta ignore them all, but ignoring seems really mean to me.

    Being female (or having a female toon) is for sure a double edged sword. Depends if you'd rather have a bucket load of free greens (and a friend request while getting hit on) or peace of mind.
    My response to random requests to be someones girlfriend is usually "I'm sorry I'm married" That usually shuts them down quite effectively. I really don't want to tell some poor kid that he just hit on a middle aged accountant. LMBO.

    On the other hand I haven't been on the receiving end of any rude crude and socially unacceptable comments. In that case I just might tell them that I am 51 and my kids are probably older than they are, ;-)
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    Quote Originally Posted by Fyrce View Post
    I must be doing it wrong. I keep giving stuff to guys...
    Gets out male toon... hello!

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    Some of the things PMed to me are so filthy that I would gladly give up any possible preferential treatment just to be rid of the many more common occurrences of graphic remarks

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    Quote Originally Posted by StompArtist View Post
    Gets out male toon... hello!
    *is amused* have one of each gender, take advantage of everyone!
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    We definitely have it eas-IER! I started a thread about a guy who gave me 50k out of the blue......he has since then given me 500k . In fact , yesterday he bought an elixir pack and went farming for me...He got me A WHOLE SET OF ONSET/HALENESS/SHARDS. I didn't have the heart to tell him I already had them. * LE SIGH*.....HE'S INFATUATED WITH MY TOON....HAAAHHHAAA

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    Quote Originally Posted by minamoo View Post
    We definitely have it eas-IER! I started a thread about a guy who gave me 50k out of the blue......he has since then given me 500k . In fact , yesterday he bought an elixir pack and went farming for me...He got me A WHOLE SET OF ONSET/HALENESS/SHARDS. I didn't have the heart to tell him I already had them. * LE SIGH*.....HE'S INFATUATED WITH MY TOON....HAAAHHHAAA
    Dude is crazy. He'll never meet you in real life!! I must make a girl toon to reap the benefits
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    I swear my next mission is to ask him NOT to kill me in CTF/DM.....lol.

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    Quote Originally Posted by minamoo View Post
    We definitely have it eas-IER! I started a thread about a guy who gave me 50k out of the blue......he has since then given me 500k . In fact , yesterday he bought an elixir pack and went farming for me...He got me A WHOLE SET OF ONSET/HALENESS/SHARDS. I didn't have the heart to tell him I already had them. * LE SIGH*.....HE'S INFATUATED WITH MY TOON....HAAAHHHAAA
    In all seriousness could he not just make his own female toon and invest in it? I honestly don't get it but if I where you I would be extremely careful in revealing personal infos (do not reveal personal infos!). Guy seems to be seriously OCD about you... errr.... your toon.

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    The saddest thing is that there is a language barrier...you see....we communicate like this.

    ME: how are you today?
    HIM: fine
    ME: good
    HIM:Today I give some nice stuff fer you. Espetta here. me back quick I bring fer you nice stuff.
    ME: o.o

    Usually he just spots me...and I get the 'you have received' notification....He doesn't chat...cos we can't ......there is no danger of over sharing info.....trust me.
    Last edited by minamoo; 07-21-2012 at 11:35 AM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by minamoo View Post
    The saddest thing is that there is a language barrier...you see....we communicate like this.

    ME: how are you today?
    HIM : fine
    ME: good
    HIM: Today I give some nice stuff fer you. Espetta here. me back quick I bring fer you nice stuff.
    ME: o.o

    Usually he just spots me...and I get the you have received .....notification....He doesn't chat...cos we can't ......there is no danger of over sharing info.....trust me.
    You have found yourself a golden retriever! I am jealous. lol

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    ^^I keep thinking....why me? LOL

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    Quote Originally Posted by minamoo View Post
    The saddest thing is that there is a language barrier...you see....we communicate like this.

    ME: how are you today?
    HIM: fine
    ME: good
    HIM:Today I give some nice stuff fer you. Espetta here. me back quick I bring fer you nice stuff.
    ME: o.o

    Usually he just spots me...and I get the 'you have received' notification....He doesn't chat...cos we can't ......there is no danger of over sharing info.....trust me.
    That's really, really bizarre. Maybe he's just, IDK, mad?
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    Finally a great solution to get those undead antler vanities easily :P

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    My main's a girl. I get offered so much stuff lol but I never accept. I think I might for now on lmao.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bronislav84:716950
    I haven't gotten free items yet, but I do get hit on a heck of a lot. Nice story. I'm jelly.
    My answer is still this.

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    lol, being a female toon is hard, when you're constantly getting cybor/flirting pms but you know what is harder? being a female toon wearing an item that was just released, and not many others are wearing it. then you go into vampire district and, bam, 10 different ppl want to know where you got it, lol. as for the cybor/dating tells, most i just respond with, "sorry, not interested in cybor/flirting, and i don't make small talk", and the rest i merely don't even acknowledge that i received them, i don't bother adding them to ignore list, i just don't respond, lol.

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    Lol, i know your feeling exactly, even i said zopok is me, they keep sending me request and free stuff, kindness but not zetectic.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Chanyu96 View Post
    Lol, i know your feeling exactly, even i said zopok is me, they keep sending me request and free stuff, kindness but not zetectic.
    I had to reject gifts on my other 26 toon as my inventory kept getting filled with gifts too quickly on my other 26 fm toon.

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    From my 'extensive' research I have found that sadly it is easier not to reply to people not on my friend list. I realise this may make me appear unfriendly (I am not) or unhelpful (again, I am not) but the next line is either " please give me gold" if I am on a male toon or " will you be my gf?" when on my numerous girl toons. I spent ages replying to people individually saying nicely, " no thank you" but in the end the requests were too numerous. And as Roc says, there are some comments that quite literally take your breath away...and believe me, I am very broad minded! It does make me wonder if there are girls or guys posing as girls who do give these people what they are looking for as otherwise, with no encouragement, they would realise it falls on deaf ears. So, if you genuinely wish to speak to me, don't be put off by the initial rebuff! I am lovely really

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    Quote Originally Posted by Taaralatie View Post
    From my 'extensive' research I have found that sadly it is easier not to reply to people not on my friend list. I realise this may make me appear unfriendly (I am not) or unhelpful (again, I am not) but the next line is either " please give me gold" if I am on a male toon or " will you be my gf?" when on my numerous girl toons. I spent ages replying to people individually saying nicely, " no thank you" but in the end the requests were too numerous. And as Roc says, there are some comments that quite literally take your breath away...and believe me, I am very broad minded! It does make me wonder if there are girls or guys posing as girls who do give these people what they are looking for as otherwise, with no encouragement, they would realise it falls on deaf ears. So, if you genuinely wish to speak to me, don't be put off by the initial rebuff! I am lovely really
    She is very lovely indeed
    And for me, i assume female toons r guys until i find out otherwise.
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