I just wanted to post where I landed. Thanks for everyones input.

My guild doesn't allow pvp killing of other guild members. Other than that, if you are on the other team, I will attack you. That's what the game is made for. I expect you to attack me as well.

Also I should add that, and again not trying to bring any controversy, if you're on my friends list I will still attack you and again I expect you to attack me if we are on opposing teams. Theres a lot of pvp players on my friend list and im tired of going through endless instances looking for a clean one. Its a game. I used to play sports and often members of opposing teams were friends. I didn't get all sore when they scored against our team or me personally. I congratulated them. I was proud to be friends with a strong player.

So if anyone wants to no longer be my friend because of this.... that's kinda dumb because most of the people on my f list can kick my arse anyway. (ley)

Again, thanks for the input.