Aren't PvP maps for, well, PvP?

[Ellyidol]

I'm a bit new to the twinking world, just got my bear to 31 today (thank you Myst).

9 times out of 10, the PvP rooms I join (non-created ones, seem to be no host all the time) are NOT for PvP.

Am I missing something? The moment I try to PvP, very interesting remarks are used. Lol.

Can't count how many I've reported today alone due to the language they use.

PS. This isn't intended to troll, for flames, or anything. I really don't get it, where's the PvP?