How to cultivate being Enigmatic?
Strange, mysterious, unpredictable, leaving people in awe and speculate ... these characteristics and many more, contributes toward making an enigmatic personality. An enigmatic personality is about being eccentric and keep surprising others with knowledge and charm he acquires. At most of the time people are left wondering and curious to know more and more about them. Enigmatic people are having various traits which make them special and separate from others. Some people are born enigmatic but some develop these qualities because they like to be enigmatic and some are forced because of their profession or living environment. Detectives, lawyers, intelligence officials, criminals, bureaucrats, etc are often found to be enigmatic. Enigmatic people are having certain traits which distinguish them from others….i am enumerating some of them below.
An enigmatic person is of reserve character. He often speaks less. He intervenes when situation is inevitable and leaves powerful impact on the listeners with less but emphatic words. That means, he speaks on issues in which he is having sound knowledge and also intercepts wisely when really required. He never participates in forum where he lacks depth. He is not eager to participate in an audience and generally behaves as a good listener.
He often waits for other to speak first. When asked something, he takes his own time to answer after measuring all options and finding the most appropriate one in the most polite manner. He is creative when explaining something and explains even common things attractively. He is master of language he speaks and has wide vocabulary marking a good impression. He never keeps telling about his past happenings, past conquests, past love life or past achievements. He lives in the present and speaks of present scenario.
His presence is often pleasing to others as people are aware he doesn’t gossip and violate trust. He is not a cheater. When situation arises people are likely to show their confidence and faith on him.
He is less informative about himself and shares very restricted information when asked. Any plan or future prospects are confined to him only. It is not easy to become friend or get close to an enigmatic person as they are not in habit of trusting others simply.
He stays relaxed and doesn’t overreact to an unfriendly situation. He believes in non-violence and smart escapes. Breaking law is none of his characteristics.
He possesses an unusual hobby or interest and believes learning is ever ending process.
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