@visordown

Also consider that some mages react to how you play. If they don't see you tanking, they don't feel obligated to heal you. Specially if you're running behind them. What i suggest is, always tank. Give it some time. If the mages don't heal you, then you can say something like "if you'd like me to continue tanking, heals are greatly appreciated" that way, the ball is in their court. You did your part, now it's up to them to do theirs. With that, at least they can't say "you're nt tanking so why should i heal you?"