It's never good being at either extreme. Example, I saw some kid that I've known for a while at walmart a couple days ago. I went up to say hey, and he instantly starts sayin how he was gonna beat me up next time he saw me blah blah blah, so all I did was tell him why wait? I'm standing right here, be a man. So, he turned and left. It's always fun to let off some steam, and personally I love to fight, but then again I like to help people. Now, I could've chased him down, done whatever, but I figured why do it? He just wanted to impress his mongaloid lookin girlfriend, so after he decided not to fight, I figured it was over. After that I helped an old lady carry her groceries. So I mean yeah, conflict is fun, but so is the other extreme.
Edit: crap, I looked at this and I hope you didn't take it as me telling you what to do. I figure you understand I'm just talkin, but I just wanted to make sure.